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Q: What on earth am I doing? Let me start off by saying I’m a relatively smart cookie. But I have to ask, why does being smart necessarily mean going to college? These weren’t the exact words my parents said (actually, they said nothing like it), but it’s basically the meaning they’ve been getting across since I was in high school. Here I am, on my fourth college in my fifth year, and all I’ve been thinking about in the past several months (*coughYEARScough*) is how I don’t want this. I don’t know if it’s specifically the major I don’t want or if it’s school in general. I just don’t like what I’m doing. My problem, however, lies in the fact that if I don’t go to school full time (at least 12 credits/semester, which is four classes), I won’t have health insurance. I may be relatively smart, but I’m not relatively healthy. I’ve got a whole mess of medical issues on top of the fact that anything could happen to me at any moment in time (not to sound tragic, but you never know). I’m in school pursuing a degree in English. I know it, it’s what I’m good at, but I’m not exactly excited or passionate about it. I’m passionate about film and things involved with it, but I’m not about to move out to California, New York, or Miami because a) I can’t afford it, and b) I need my parents within a relatively close proximity in case my health fritzes. Honestly, other than this little blip on my radar, I’m happy. This is just a huge pothole that’s got me really confused.

A: Well if you believe that your smart enough to get far in life then you can stop taking that subject because you shouldn’t be doing something that your not passionate about. & well don’t worry about going very far right now because the most important thing to take care of is your health & when you have enough money from your jobs or your parents then you can go and start new ! & earn some moneyy!  (; Goodluck! 

I can’t cry. I know I can be stronger than that. It’s just that I can’t find my strength right now. I know I can be better than this. I know it…

I’m so tired of holding on to this smile when in reality its all fake. I hate when my all my days are fucked over and I never really even had happiness in my life, I still manage to put that same smile on every single day of my life. I just wish someone was there to understand and realize the truth behind the smiles and laughters. I wish I can have someone that I can pour everything out to no matter how dark of a secret it is. 

Q: My ex boyfriend and i had been friends after we broke up back in febuary, but recently.. He asked me to give him another chance since i told him he hurt me badly. I don’t know whether or not to give him a chance. 
What would you do if you were in my shoes?

A: Is he just asking you to give him another chance because he feels bad because you told him that he hurt you badly? Well, if you think that he really deserves you then go for it. If he really makes you happy and you know that you still love him and that he still loves you then get back together. It’s all about the feelings that you guys have together. But if I were you.. It would depend on how much he had hurt you. If it was like cheating, abuse, arguing 24/7 then I wouldn’t give him a 2nd chance because no one is worth giving a second chance if you’ve been treated like that. Also theres more people out there for you. You can’t just always stick to one person for the rest of your life. There’s always a time when you lose feelings for someone and you just need to move on. Good luck ! 

 I love your smile, I love your laughter, I love your hair, I love your eyes, I love your optimism, I love your hug, I love your kiss, I love everything of you. Really.

I’m scared of falling inlove. I’m scared of getting hurt again. This is all his fault, he broke my heart, and now I’m too scared to let anyone in cause I don’t want that to happen again..

I’m falling apart slowly. I hate this feeling. I miss being happy.

My worst fear is being abandoned. 

 i miss being ‘your girl’.

Best girl friend—my cousin. Best guy friend. You two fell in love at first sight. 

Dear Boy, 

I pinky promised you I’d tell you everything that’s ever crossed my mind. But I now know I have to break it in order to save you from my harm’s way. 

Dear Boy,

I love you.

But I’m willing to let go for you. And for her. They say that when you let go, the one that comes back is yours forever.

I know you’ll come back to me.

But you will never be mine. 

But it’s alright. I will always love you from behind. And I’ll be there, even when it tears my heart.

It’s alright.

Dear Girl, 

I know you’ll love him well. I know you more than anyone in this world. You won’t let me down. So please be happy, even when I’m not. I’m dying inside, but there’s this little candle in my heart that reminds me to be happy for you everyday. Because I love you more than the universe.

So please continue to break my heart, just don’t break his. 

So the gentleman and the lady live happily ever after.

I’m just the best friend.